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Tuesday, April 25, 2017

Do you KNOW yourself? Do you Accept yourself?

When you know yourself, you are empowered. When you accept yourself, you are invincible!


A simple quote with so much meaning! But... what DOES it mean? What does it mean to "know yourself"? I mean, really know yourself. 

To know yourself means to know your beliefs, to know what you like and don't like and what you'll stand for and what you won't stand for. In other words- you've set some boundaries. It involves an awareness of WHO you are as a person. 





I am a spiritual person who holds various views on spiritual issues that I have come to learn over a period of YEARS. I like staying home and I dislike being excessively social. I am accepting of others views; but I won't tolerate others pushing those views on me. Knowing these things about myself has resulted in a feeling of empowerment. Much like a newly trained employee who is being sent into the workforce... you know, like a college kid! You've got some values and belief and you are excited to stand in your truth. 

But, often times; we stand in our truth and don't expect the backlash that comes. Maybe we aren't prepared, or as prepared as we thought we were. In those times, a person may begin to doubt their truth. They may become unsure of the position they've taken or the path they've chosen. 


The second part is ACCEPTANCE


When we ACCEPT ourselves, however; we become invincible. Accepting ourselves includes accepting that even if our truth or beliefs don't jive with the rest of the worlds; we are okay with that. This is me and I am comfortable with the ME that I am. Acceptance is just that; a trust and confidence in where I stand on certain topics; be they large or small. 

When I am acting like a "bitch"... I am OWNING that shit!! That is ME. And I am okay with the ME that I am, even if others around me aren't comfortable with it or even LIKE it. The opinions of others are none of my business!!

So, I ask you this: Do you KNOW yourself? And even more so, do you ACCEPT yourself for who you are, flaws and all? 





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Tuesday, April 18, 2017

The Biggest Lie I've Ever Told

We've all told a lie at some point in our lives... no matter how upright and ethical you claim your life to be or try to be. And I suspect, for many of us, we continue to tell lies.... in fact, I can almost guarantee this!

You see one of the biggest lies I've ever told is this... 

"I'm fine"

And I have a strong feeling that 90% (or more) of the people reading this have told that very same lie!



For so many, when asked how they are doing; the rote answer of "I'm fine" is what comes out of their mouth. We wonder 'does this person truly want to know?' Saying anything else may bring a slew of questions with it. "I'm lonely" would likely bring comments telling the person all the reasons they SHOULDN'T be lonely or shouldn't feel that way, rather than validating the emotion. 

Other friends may offer up recommendations on how to NOT be lonely. All of these with good intentions of course. But none of them acknowledging the emotional response and simply allowing for space to be held. 

Plus, let's face it; the mere thought of a different response causes us to consider how uncomfortable it will make not only us, but the other person as well. 




What might change on an interpersonal level, if we eliminated the phrase "I'm fine" from our lingo? How would our relationships be changed if instead we allowed our authentic emotion at that time to be shared and exposed?

I have pondered those questions a bit here and there. On one hand, I wonder if in being more authentic in that regard would alienate people from each other. After all, most people don't want to be face to face with uncomfortable feelings and issues in themselves, never mind in another person. 

On the other hand, quite possibly, being more authentic in our response has the ability to allow us to have a more human experience. Allowing us to serve and help each other on a more intimate level. 

Do you find yourself responding with "I'm fine" when you truly don't mean it? What do YOU think would happen if, instead, we answered with how we really feel?


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Tuesday, April 11, 2017

To my younger self.....

I know many of you have heard of this before! If you could sit down and give your "Younger You" some advice... what would it be? 

As I sit in meditation, it occurs to me that I have so much I would want to say to my younger self that it is rather difficult to pin point just ONE thing! 

I do believe that the one point I would want to drive home is the instruction to QUESTION EVERYTHING! 




Everything? Yes, everything. Every little fact that the world presents as truth. Every single story you are taught in school as "truth". Every single statement that is told to you and every single concept or idea you encounter. 

When you go through the journey of life and people tell you 'that's just how it's done'... question it. When you read a historical story... question it. Train your mind to look at every story and every fact from an alternative viewpoint. 



Throughout history, governments, media, and people in power have been the ones to write and document that "history"; those "facts". And those facts have been told from their perspective. 

By questioning these things, we allow our minds to open to other possibilities. WHAT IF... everything we believe to be true was ingrained in our minds from the OPPOSITE perspective? How different would our lives be? I honestly feel that just by entertaining that concept, we open our minds so much and allow our brain to develop an increase in neurons and electrical connections; increasing our knowledge, awareness and overall wisdom. 

What is one thing that YOU would tell your younger self? Share in the comments below!



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Tuesday, April 4, 2017

Identifying Belief... SMASHED! (Hint... I'm NOT a Stepford Wife!!)

During my weekly journal prompts the topic came up of taking a serious look at certain beliefs that we hold and how they may have changed over the years. Looking at various topics or issues and writing down your belief about that issue that you had in childhood, as a teenager, as a young adult and then now as an older adult. The process allowed me to see the pattern of changes that have occurred over time. 

Some of those beliefs remained constant throughout; but many others changed quite drastically over time! Today I'm going to focus only on ONE of those beliefs!  




One of the most prominent beliefs that came up was that of being the "good wife". As a young woman my views around this revolved around having to be submissive and somewhat of a "home-body". Unfortunately, this whole idea of what a good wife was just didn't fit with the PERSON I was! In my mind the good wife was quiet and submissive. Someone who was unconditionally supportive of her husband... (who just happened to always have the best of intentions and acted in the utmost way both ethically and morally). She was someone who baked cookies and made sure dinner was ready for her husband. She would never do or say anything that her husband found offensive or remotely inappropriate. 

She was a stepford wife... and trying to fit that ideal was so far removed for me. I was loud and opinionated. I was terrible in the kitchen! And quite frankly, didn't feel like I should have to take on ownership for the way someone else responds or feels or reacts to something I say or do (within reason). 




Fast forward to mid-level adulthood and my beliefs on this issue have done a drastic 180'!  Well... that's not to say I've become a TERRIBLE wife!! But, more so an empowered woman! I've learned to re-evaluate my own interpretation of what a "good wife" entails. I've accepted that I am not a submissive, quiet person; but rather an opinionated and, quite frankly, a rather loud individual. And those qualities are OKAY....  and that they mesh well with certain people even if they don't jive with others! 

What brought about this change in this belief? The short answer is enlightenment. And the little bit longer answer is that I went through so many crappy, controlling relationships that I was (finally) able to recognize what a crappy relationship LOOKED like... so I could actually be on the lookout for the complete opposite! In this particular instance, I believe that the change in my belief around what a good wife is, has been a positive one. It is empowering and liberating on so many levels and has allowed me to flourish in so many other areas of life. 

What is ONE belief you had that eventually CHANGED over time? Has it been a positive or negative change? Share in the comments below!




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Monday, March 27, 2017

5 Things I Appreciate About My Previous Spiritual Paths

Many people who leave the religious beliefs that they were brought up in harbor a great deal of negativity towards that religion. There are few who can look back on that journey and pick out a few aspects of it that can be appreciated. 

Why should we "appreciate" something we walked away from, you ask? Well, for one thing, that path that we WERE on helped to bring us to the path we are currently on! So, in many cases that path was a necessary part of our journey to bring us to the path we may be on currently. And there's something to be said for that! 

Here are 5 things that I have come to appreciate about the spiritual paths and religions that I was a part of before coming to my current spiritual path!


1. Those paths taught me the meaning of DOGMA!


From Wikipedia... Dogma is an English term transliterated in the 17th century from Latin (Latin dogma) meaning "philosophical tenet", derived from the Greek 'dogma' (Greek δόγμα) meaning literally "that which one thinks is true" and 'dokein' (Greek dokeo) "to seem good."

As I journeyed on my previous paths, it became very clear to me that we were to accept particular "truths" without question. Oh, I know, there are many people in those previous paths that will shout out 'No! Not true! You are always able to question!' But to them I say hogwash! I had seen it first-hand that certain questions were frowned upon or simply left unanswered as the inquirer was made to feel "less than". 

I have seen dogmas defend themselves regardless of the alternative facts presented. And I have seen faithful believers cling to dogmas, creating a false sense of security in their lives. 

And it was in seeing these things that I began to fully understand the meaning of religious dogma and how significantly it impacts the lives of so many people. In this knowledge, I became even more adamant on questioning everything that was presented to me, as I began to equate religious dogma to the image in my head of a horse with blinders on. 





2. Those paths gave me a foundation of "religious knowledge".


I've always believed that knowledge of any sort is powerful. And so it has proven true with religious "knowledge" as well. Despite the fact that I may not subscribe to the "knowledge", having that background has helped me to question things that I had formerly accepted as truth. Had I not had this indoctrinated education, I would not have been able to put some of the pieces together to even begin to question them. 

As an example- if I were to look at a major religion that I have little knowledge about, and someone were to state a "fact" about that religion; I would not be able to debate it or discuss it with considerable certainty as I have little knowledge of those "religious facts" (as they are taught). Knowing the historical basis of certain religions has helped me to see a BIGGER PICTURE in regards to religion and its place in history. 


3. One path showed me the reverence of RITUAL


Fun fact... I went to Catholic High School. I can recall having to attend "chapel" and often bailing out of it to hide out in the Guidance office... or anywhere really! Well, this one day I had nowhere to go and we were all corralled into the chapel. As I surely wasn't interested in what was being said, and couldn't hear most of it anyway; I was whispering about something completely off topic to the friend sitting at my side. It was then that one of the teachers pulled me aside and explained the importance of showing respect and reverence despite the fact that I may not follow that path. 

From that point on, I would attend and sit in respect. And in doing so, I observed those "rituals" and the more active participants. I realized that when performing a ritual of ANY sort, one is showing respect, not just to the faith, but to the energies and deities that you are calling upon. This respect for the reverence of ritual practices made it a natural progression for me when I began to show reverence for my ancestors while on my current path. 





4. My previous religion showed me that what someone does within church walls is not as meaningful as what one does outside those walls.


I can remember sitting in a service years ago and hearing the preacher flat out tell everyone that "we do no good while sitting here, the only real good we can do is that which we do outside of these walls". He then went on to say that it didn't even matter that all of us were sitting in that church if what we did outside of those walls didn't show others that we live our beliefs. 

This was probably the last time I even sat in a "church" to be honest! For it was then that I had the epiphany that how I lived my life was of far greater importance. This realization instilled in me the importance of "living my truth". 


5. I appreciate that one path taught me to "Avoid the Appearance of Evil"... and here's why!


I can remember arriving to an evening church service in my beat up Dodge Aspen with newly applied Grateful Dead stickers plastered all over it. Oh, the looks I got! At the time, I was young and absolutely had no idea what the big deal was! Finally, one of my friends pulled me aside and explained the "evil" in that music and why it "didn't look good" that I had those stickers on my car. 

He went on to share a (hypothetical) story about a man who is seen parked in front of a liquor store even though he had been going into the adjacent food market. Explaining that because he happened to be parked in front of the liquor store, should someone impressionable see his vehicle there; it may cause that impressionable person to lose their faith. 

Hmmm..... well, I can tell you it didn't change my mind about the stickers OR the music; but it did bring to light a more powerful message in my eyes. People will judge you based on what they see, even if they aren't seeing the whole picture. 

What are some of the things that YOU appreciate about the spiritual paths you have been on in your life? (The ones that you are no longer following that is!)

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Tuesday, March 21, 2017

Sound Vibrations and Energetic Healing... What a Combo!

Have you ever noticed how certain music makes you feel a certain way? When you listen to lively, upbeat music it gets you in a better mood. And when you listen to more mellow music- it offers a sense of relaxation. The vibrations that these sounds put out effect us on a deep level.. spiritually, mentally, emotionally and yes... even physically! 

When I began to incorporate sound vibrations into my healing sessions, I noticed that the effects of the healing became so much stronger. I often use recorded sounds of drumming and even Tibetan Singing Bowls to enhance the energetic healing. 

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Wednesday, March 15, 2017

Message from Spirit: Visualize Your Future So Clearly... it is ingrained in our minds like the back of our hand!

It's always welcome and wonderful when spirit visits in our dreams with advice and inspiration! Many nights, when they come- the messages are so cryptic and the symbolism can be fairly deep and challenging to comprehend. 

Last night, however, I was blessed with a pretty clear-cut dream with easy to understand symbols! Now we're talking!

In this dream, I was being told that I had to visualize so clearly;-in fact, I was to memorize-  the second and third floors of a mall. I had to be able to see each and every store in my minds eye; with the entire third floor being full of restaurants. Once I was able to do that- I was shown that I would be able to obtain a position in a small shop that wasn't even attached to the mall. And despite my feeling (in the dream) that I was ill equipped to run that shop- I was shown that the line would be quite long at the register. 




Does this seem rather cryptic to you? Well, thankfully, I was awakened in the morning with such a clear understanding of the meaning and a certainty surrounding that. When we dream of a mall that often indicates the choices and decisions that we have to make in our waking life. It speaks of the plans we have and is a positive indication that we are on the right path. 

When we dream of a restaurant or several in this case, we are being told that we should be of service to others or that we are seeking service from others. In this case, having to memorize each restaurant seems to speak more to the point of being of service in the chosen path. 

The image of running a small shop with a long line of customers speaks of being successful in business and able to handle that resultant success. 




The overall meaning seemed to suggest that visualization is of utmost importance when we are trying to manifest success in our lives. Being able to see with perfect clarity, how we desire things to be. WITHOUT worrying about the "HOW". Just visualize it. Never mind how it will happen - much like the dream, I wasn't concerned with HOW I would memorize each of the shops and locations, I just knew that it was important that I was able to see each one in my minds eye as clear as day. And that the result of this intense visualization would be success. How we serve others will be welcome and well received. 

Well... most of us already know the importance of visualization; so what's so special about this? Was it simply a reminder... a nudge in the right direction? Or was it something a bit more? Well, I believe that it suggests that we have to "up our game" somewhat! It isn't enough to just visualize our goals randomly whenever we feel "stuck"... we need to visualize them as though it's part of our JOB! Much like we are studying for a test. When we study for a test we set aside time each and every day to ingrain those facts in our mind and so we must do this with our goals as well. Take time each day to memorize what that future will look like. 

Do you take the time each day to visualize your goals and what you want your future to look like? Or are there days when the mundane aspects of our current life get in the way and we neglect to spend a few minutes visualizing it? Can you imagine the changes that we could manifest if we made visualizing our dreams and goals a priority?? I challenge you to spend 5 minutes each and every day visualizing your goals this month. 


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